God: created the various seasons of our lives….
Esther 4:14 (KJV) “For if thou altogether holdest thy peace at this time, then shall there enlargement and deliverance arise to the Jews from another place; but thou and thy father’s house shall be destroyed: and who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”
In our lives we undergo things with individuals which tend to hurt us at times; our hearts become harden and we make up in our minds that we aren’t going to allow ourselves to be subject to such things any more.
But in this life we have to come to the realization that we were created to be living, breathing entities. When we pull ourselves away from interacting with others, it bring about a hurting of another kind.
Sometimes we have to work through the situation and let it cure from the inside.
Good thing about it: God is available to walk us through it all.