God: dislikes the murmuring spirit….
1 Corinthians 10:10-11 (KJV) “Neither murmur ye, as some of them also murmured, and were destroyed of the destroyer. Now all these things happened unto them for examples: and they are written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the world are come.”
One thing we do and it is something that God looks on with disdain and that is murmuring. For some of us it is a compulsive spirit which is embedded deep within us and as we say sometimes, ‘we can’t help ourselves”.
That’s why God gave us His spirit, He is the helper, He is the one who moves things out of the way when we have done all that we can in our own initiative and didn’t accomplish what we were trying to.
Give it to Him without the compulsion to murmur. It doesn’t help really, so go to phase two before allowing phase one to kick in…give it to Jesus.