God: Already released the potion…
Romans 13:8 (KJV) “Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.”
God’s commandment to love touches all the spectrum of emotions that you can think of in relationships. The testing of love allows you to know that when agape love is in effect. This is love which surpasses human comprehension, but it is worth it.
The person you found impossible to love is just in that moment lovable and you can’t fathom it.
Cherish those moments if you are able to get them; if that gift is placed within you, embrace it.