God: language is different…
Ephesians 4:30-32 (KJV) “And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”
In our interacting with one another, there are times when we can get angry and belligerent in how we respond and it can get out of hand quite quickly without that being the intention.
Having a conscious grasp upon emotions and reactions can be beneficial in the outcome of a situation.
This will showcase itself in the after effect feelings we get when we come through an argument. You might not have broken everything within your reach, but ultimately the feeling will be good in that you pleased your Father and walked away from inflammatory outcomes.
Self control and forethought in thinking is beneficial in the outcome.