God:admires unity and support…
Colossians 3:15-17 (KJV) “And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.”
There is a part in the word that advises us to be content whatever state you are in; that in my mind can be a tall order, especially when you look at the rapid pace in which we live our lives today and the expectations we have to abide in.
Either one thing or the other needs to be fulfilled and if it isn’t done, then it’s another fire to put out. It is all based upon our personal circumstances.
But we are called to look into the things of the other person; meaning we have to be our brother and sister’s keeper.
It might be difficult at times, but persevere in Christ and He will do the guiding where gaps appear.