God: implemented the trust factor….
Proverbs 3:5-6 (KJV) “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”
As humans we get to the point where we are self-centric and want to do all thing for ourselves or in the manner we want to have it accomplished; our way is most likely best in our eyes, but that necessarily might not be true.
God’s way is pretty different from ours and it might mean if we are in relationship with Him to trust Him to work stuff out according to His will and way.
It might be a struggle at first to give everything that pops up into His arms, but gradually it becomes the best choice. In all thy ways, not some but all thy ways, let Him make the decisions and the choices and the outcomes will be different.
Try His way.