God: gave us a charge….
Romans 12:2 (KJV) “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God”.
As humans we can have really bad attitudes about habits we practice as we have adopted them as babes growing up; it’s not necessary that we take ownership of these behaviors, yet because of continuous practice it seems to be a part of who we are in personality.
But it is possible to do without these attachments without feeling as if we aren’t complete; it takes a conscious effort and the partnering of the Spirit of God to yank them off in totality.
If you get tired enough of the drain on your personality and the truly beautiful individual you were meant to be, then consider doing a renewing of the mind: do a transformation and walk into the grace of Christ…